When I was a kid, did I have an imaginary friend? You know, I can't actually remember. I think I must have bossed my sister around instead to be honest. The strangest thing is, though, both my eldest children had imaginary friends and they were both called Jamie.
Jamie number 1 lived in the washing machine. He would only eat from a red plastic plate and needed speaking to with a certain intonation. It was Jamie who broke the handle of the washing machine trying to get out apparently.
Jamie number 2 (no relation) lived behind the settee. He was the only one who could understand my son's very unusual speech problem and they spent hours singing and dancing to certain songs on the music video channel. It was Jamie who picked all the wallpaper off from behind the settee because he was bored at night when no-one was playing with him.
But imaginary play, in whatever form, is a way that our children communicate, both with their friends or on their own. They copy what they see happening around them - it's familiarity. This all helps social skills to develop and also to expand emotions, feelings, hand-eye coordination and expanding into counting, reading and colours.
So what toys can When I Was A Kid offer for imaginary play?
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The John Crane Tildo High Tea set isn't just a number counting and shape sorting toy. Imagine all the tea parties that could be enjoyed using the great cake shapes after you've finished matching and counting.
I adore this Wooden Train set from the John Crane toys selection. This advanced set is great for imaginative play and incorporates bright colours. The set is also compatible with other popular wooden train sets.
I have also just spotted the My First Wooden Cooker. It comes with eight different accessories including a wooden egg! There are adjustable knobs on the front and an oven glove included too. And best of all? It folds away for easy storage.
Do any of your children have imaginary friends? What do they play? Do you encourage or discourage it? Have the imaginary friends left you in difficult or embarrassing situations? Tell us in the comments about your child's imaginary play.
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Such a fantastic post. I adore imaginative play with my children. None have ever had an imaginary friend as such, but they have all enjoyed pretending that their toys are real - having tea parties, shopping trips, even a visit to the Doctors with poorly baby doll. It's all a vital part of learning and development. A very magical part of childhood too.
ReplyDeleteWe have the High Tea set :) It's gorgeous. Afternoon tea for several bears, a dog and some very pretty dollies! Oh, and the cat if he behaves ;)
Any imaginary play is great - and can be a bit embarrassing sometimes, can't it? I used to hear my own voice and phrases when listening in.
ReplyDeleteAnd now you've got me humming "Miss Polly had a dolly who was sick, sick, sick"
My little ones both love imaginary play. They can spend hours playing with just a saucepan and a spoon. We have the wooden train set and can spend all day on it making up a million stories or chattering away to the passengers. I do find myself talking to them as I tidy them up at the end of the dat !
ReplyDeleteThe inspiration for imaginary play has to come from somewhere though - and I believe that it's day-to-day activities PLUS great parenting that allow that freedom of mind.
ReplyDeleteJacob can always be found in his own little world and usually performing some kind of daring rescue complete with all character voices. He loves imaginary play, I think because he is an only child and has spent a lot of time playing alone while I work at home. I definitely encourage it!
ReplyDeleteIt's a great way for them to develop their vocabulary and re-enact experiences. Sometimes it's interesting to see how they perceived an event.
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